Let me tell you the story of how I ended up in this apartment. The lease for my previous apartment ended mid August. At that time, I thought I was going to be moving to NYC, so I was looking for apartments in NYC, but I needed some place to stay in the meantime. It just so happened that my good friend Georgina had just moved into her new two-bedroom apartment in Philly and was still looking for a long-term roomie (she had an unfortunate situation in which her initial roomie backed out the night before they were supposed to sign the lease together). Until Georgina found someone, she offered her place for me to crash. It was supposed to be a short-term solution, but one month turned into another, I still hadn’t found an apartment, and she still hadn’t found a roomie. Then I decided I would stay in Philly for the next chapter of my life, and everything fell into place. I officially signed the lease at the very end of October and couldn’t wait to move in properly. It took us a long time to get here, but it was all worth it in the end, because we couldn’t have a more ideal housing situation. I feel so lucky that during this transitional period in my life, I get to live with one of my best friends from college.
An Anonymous Girl by Greer Hendricks & Sarah Pekkanen
– I received a free copy in exchange for an honest review. –
To be published by St. Martin’s Press on 08 Jan 2019
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Seeking women ages 18–32 to participate in a study on ethics and morality. Generous compensation. Anonymity guaranteed.
When Jessica Farris signs up for a psychology study conducted by the mysterious Dr. Shields, she thinks all she’ll have to do is answer a few questions, collect her money, and leave. But as the questions grow more and more intense and invasive and the sessions become outings where Jess is told what to wear and how to act, she begins to feel as though Dr. Shields may know what she’s thinking…and what she’s hiding. As Jess’s paranoia grows, it becomes clear that she can no longer trust what in her life is real, and what is one of Dr. Shields’ manipulative experiments. Caught in a web of deceit and jealousy, Jess quickly learns that some obsessions can be deadly.
There’s more to the day
We had just finished the main event of our day mid afternoon and I was ready to head back home and turn in, but instead, we walked the opposite way to explore the neighbourhood a bit more. We stumbled upon Plenty Cafe, which I had visited before but at a different location, but since Alice hadn’t, I agreed to checking it out with her.
Experiences, not things
All the way through middle school, whenever I went on a trip, I always brought back souvenirs for myself and for my friends. I would look for something small, something I could get multiples of in variations. A pack of pencils that looked more like mini logs with the name of a city printed along their sides; tealights with mysterious scents in ceramic tealight holders shaped like elephants; questionable soaps; notebooks smaller than the size of my palm made of recycled paper with the name of a city emblazoned on the cover; erasers shaped like food that mostly just smeared lead across the page; bamboo bookmarks shaped like dolls dressed in traditional garb; friendship bracelets in bulk; gaudy keychains; little figurines.
My moments to have this season
Christmas day is good and all, but what I really love is looking forward to Christmas. I’ve been anticipating Christmas since September, so I thought at first to share a traditional holiday bucket list. Putting together my holiday bucket list, I was pretty hyped. But looking back on the predictable list of holiday markets I wanted to shop at, desserts I wanted to bake, and films I wanted to watch was uninspiring. Plus, I had already made my way through a good portion of those activities on my list, and was ready to charge full steam ahead to make it through the rest of my bucket list in record time, leaving me more time to write about them for the blog and tackle the daunting challenge of Blogmas. But that’s not what holiday bucket lists are about. They’re not assignments to tick off; they’re about creating magical holiday experiences. So here are three magical holiday moments I’m speaking into existence.
November
I’m finishing up this blog post early morning of December 1, i.e. the same morning it publishes. I occasionally get into these manic moments whilst blogging and I kinda just let myself fall into them because I haven’t been blogging as much as I would like. So I’m having at it.
I’ve had a brilliant early morning thought (that might not feel so brilliant when my delirium wanes) to do a sort of Blogmas, in which I blog daily until Christmas. It’ll be a mixture of daily updates and other types of content like cafe reviews, book reviews, and Friday Favourites. I’m hoping to get a week’s worth of posts prepped this weekend so that my content creation schedule can be more flexible the rest of the month, and so that I still have time to, ya know, live my life.
I’m still brainstorming blog posts, so if there’s anything you’d like to see more of (or less of), drop it down in the comments (you can comment anonymously too)! Any questions? Topics? Doesn’t necessarily have to be festive. Or could be!