The first half of 2018 and the second half of 2018 feel lifetimes apart. I couldn’t imagine that January and December were of the same year if it wasn’t for this recap. For the first time in a long time, I’m no longer a student. With that previous identity stripped from me, I need to figure out who I am and what I want to do next. That’s what the second half of 2018 was all about, but I still haven’t quite figured it out yet. Perhaps one day I’ll share the cycle of emotions and identity crises I’ve gone through in the last few months, but right now it makes me anxious to sort through that Past when I’m trying to figure out the Future and not break down in the Now. And so, all I can do is focus on the light…
Friday Favourites // 17
ONE // Planted not buried: 2018 a year in review
There’s no shortage of year in reviews, and I’m hoping to soon add mine to the mix, but I especially loved Sade x In My Sunday Bests’. With everyone touting their annual highlights, this was a breath of fresh air. 2018 was a hard year for some. For me, there were a lot of ups and downs, and I’m still riding the waves right now. For those of you who are struggling, lost, or confused, see if you can flip your perspective from buried to planted. I’m rooting for you! Another insightful year in review I enjoyed reading was Kelly x Studio DIY’s, in which she realised she was building a life she didn’t want. On a more uplifting note, I loved how Carly x Carly the Prepster shared about how she’s rewriting herself. As we’re all reaching for new goals, here’s a unique approach on how you can make your future habits easy. Perhaps consider that there’s always a simpler way. (I’ll also plug my own suggestion for another way to build a habit.)
TWO // Why I think 2019 will be an awesome year to be a blogger
What are your thoughts on whether blogging is dead? I admit that sometimes it feels like I’m writing into the ether, but then I’m reminded by our little community that we’re all in this together, on our own separate journeys but here for each other all the same. So thank you for being here! There’s space for all of us and all our voices. For those of you on the blogging grind, here are some tips on how to be a successful blogger this year, but I like to think of it more as how to navigate the new blogosphere and make your mark. For a behind-the-scenes look at one blogger’s creative process, check out Kara x Kara’s Closet’s blogging checklist, organised daily, weekly, and monthly. For more organisational inspiration, take a peek into Michelle x Daisybutter’s sister’s bullet journal.
THREE // Four ways to style pinafores
I own one forest green corduroy pinafore and I love it but I don’t wear it as often as I would like. I pull it out more often in autumn because autumn seems to have the perfect moderate weather for an item of clothing like this with heavy but not very much fabric. However, inspired by these warm and stylish ways to wear pinafores, I might be able to break mine out in the winter as well. For more outfit inspiration, I’m loving a few pieces from this star print shopping guide. Just because the holidays are over doesn’t mean you can’t still shine! Although, since the holidays are over, I really shouldn’t be buying anything anymore. Ever. I had too much fun shopping small businesses this season, but I’m glad that I was able to share the love; I was especially giddy to see how Damaris x The Cat, You, and Us worked this quirky little pouch I gifted into her outfit!
FOUR // Cinnamon roll mugs
I probably wouldn’t ever bother making my own cinnamon rolls, but I have all the ingredients needed except for yeast, so this recipe is very doable. Something really easy to make a ton of are stuffed dates. In a manic moment one afternoon, I made a bunch inspired by this post on stuffed dates eight ways. Whenever I’m feeling peckish, even just one stuffed date is usually enough to quell the munchies. For something heartier, give this classic french onion soup a go. It requires more ingredients than I usually bother with (I’m extremely lazy), but it’s not like I don’t have the time. Plus, french onion soup is delicious, I would feel accomplished after making it, and soups are great for winter.
FIVE // Sleeping alone in a foreign city: a love letter to solitude, safety
I love myself some alone time. Reading through Jemimah x Jemma Wei’s month-and-a-half alone living in an Airbnb above a nightclub was very soothing. I could totally see myself in a similar routine if I lived alone, existing and enjoying my own company. If the holiday travels are over for you but you’ve still got a case of wanderlust, check out these recaps and guides through Malaysia, South Korea, Venice (here’s mine), and Edinburgh. And if you missed it on my blog, check out my Japan food diary!
Link a favourite post of yours from the past week (or month) below!
The same sky
Every time we got back to the hotel, my dad would make his way over to the balcony with his camera. Multiple times a day. A few days in, I joked with him, “Every day you take pictures of the same sky.” He adamantly insisted, “It’s not the same!”
2018 reading challenge
Last year I set my reading goal to 24 books and read 58, so this year I set my reading goal to 52, but I only read 39. However, I’m still proud of myself for reading even that much, and I’m even prouder of myself to simply be in the habit of reading. Furthermore, consider that I read 27 books in 2016 and 28 in 2015! If you, like me, didn’t reach your reading goal, do not see it as a failure; the only failure would be to not read at all.
What I ate in Japan
Japan with my family was just eating whilst my dad went to see temples. I brought my camera and intended to create some kind of travel guide or fancy travel diary, but I came back from my trip, looked through my photos, and mostly just found photos of food taken with my iPhone. I didn’t take out my camera at all! I suppose I didn’t feel any urgency about it because I had visited the same areas in Japan three years ago (recap here). But anywho, here’s a little food diary of what I ate in Osaka, Kobe, and Kyoto!
December
This post marks the second completed year of monthly recaps. Despite periods of inconsistent blogging this past year, I’ve always made sure to get my monthly recaps up, sometimes staying up until the early morning to do so. On top of that, I published 22 of 25 Blogmas posts this past month. It was almost more content than I could keep up with writing, and I imagine that it was more content than you could keep up with reading. If you fancy catching up on some, my favourites are: new apartment tour, ice skating adventures, a day at the museum, another way to build a habit. Anywho, from here on out, I hope to get back to my regular posting schedule of 2x/week; if I could keep up with [most of] Blogmas, this should be a walk in the park eh?